Orgasm is the heaven that every love maker chasing for. For most of the men, masturbation or intercourse, end up cumming is the usual. But for many of the vulva owners, it seems like only “the blessed one” can achieve the orgasm. One of the main reasons is that during sex most of the men (heterosexual) always take on a more dominant role but barely try to please the women; and physiologically, females take more time for arousal also for orgasm, while their partner get off too early to even get close to the climax.
Well, if you are also struggling with it, I am willing to tell you how to orgasm with the rose vibrator.
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How well do you know Orgasms?
Now we can see many different types of rose toys for external stimulation, internal stimulation, or for both of them. If you want to know how to achieve orgasm with them, you have better have a rough idea of different types of orgasms.
Read more about types of orgasm
Clitoral Orgasms - You can feel them on the surface of the body, and can have the Clitoral Orgasm from stimulating the external part of your clitoris.
Vaginal Orgasms - You can get it from stimulating a specific spot of the front vaginal wall, the saying G-Spot. The vaginal orgasms are deeper in the body, and some believe that this is better than the clitoral orgasms, but in fact these orgasms are all from the same place - G-Spot is the place where the clitoral legs hug the vaginal canal.
Anal Orgasms - You will feel the muscle contractions in the anal canal and the sphincter. Both vulva owner and the penis owner can achieve the anal orgasms: for the people with penis, they can stimulate the prostate (G-spot) through the anal and get prostate orgasms; and for people with vagina, when the A-spot - you can find it through anal canal - is stimulated, you can get the anal orgasms.
Blended Orgasms - Also known as combo orgasms, which is a more explosive orgasm by stimulating the vagina and the clitoris at the same time.
Erogenous Zone Orgasms - This is a lesser known orgasm and also could be a more full-body orgasm. Stimulating the erogenous zones of body may be able to orgasm when causing pleasurable release.
Get Yourself Ready
Ok, now you might be itching to try them all and can't wait to practice. Well, there are some more tips for you folks that find it hard to reach climax, also for whom want a stronger orgasm. The key is to get yourself ready.
Relax & Create the ambiance: to increase your desire and turn yourself on, before you begin, read or watch some stories, or just tap into your sexual fantasies.
Exercise: yes, exercise stimulates your blood flow and can make your body more sensitive. Running at a reasonable pace will be good enough.
Prepare the lube: you should always put the lube on the list for having fun with the rose vibrator, to avoid getting hurt also to increase the pleasure.
Get familiar with the rose toy: just play with your toy, know about the control buttons, and know how to use the rose toy.
Now let’s get down to business.
How to orgasm with the rose vibrator when masturbate?
Travel through your whole body
Last the masturbation longer and make the process fun, why not? Have a foreplay before go down between your legs. Let the rose toy suck or lick your ear, neck, nipples, toes, pelvic, upper thighs... any of the erogenous zones you know that might turn you on and make you wet. Keep trying, what if you get an erogenous zone orgasm during the body exploration.
Feel the labia
Indirect clitoral stimulation to the side or above the clitoris could be even more arousing, because the clitoris goes all the way down the labia, so press your rose vibrator on and around the labia to suck or lick, can actually feel amazing.
Time for the entrees, direct to the clitoris and vagina
External stimulation & clitoral orgasms
If you are not going to do the penetration during your solo play, the the external stimulation, a rose toy with tongue or a suction rose toy would be fine.
Just put the rose directly on your clit, and keep moving it forth and back or in circle to avoid “over-stimulation”. Keep doing this and the clitoral orgasms will come in aggressive way.
Internal stimulation & vaginal orgasm
If you used to go for penetration during masturbation, or you are ready to have a try, a double ended rose toy - rose toy with shaft, with vibrating egg or with dildo - will be your perfect partner.
To achieve the vaginal orgasm, the key is to keep stimulating the G-Spot. A rose toy with curved shaft vibrator can do this easily. Just pull it towards your belly button, the feeling will be quite different when you hit the G-Spot.
Or if you are more into the feeling of penis-in-vagina intercourse, a thrusting dildo rose toy can do exactly what you want. Also you can intentionally direct the thrusting dildo going through the G-spot.
Double stimulation & combo orgasms
The best part of this kind of double ended rose toys is that you can stimulate the clitoris and the vagina at the same time. The pleasure will be so strong while doing this, be patient and keep trying, the combo orgasms is coming for you.
You will not regret the anal penetration
Start with rimming
The anal play is still a blind zone for most of the people. But believe me there are some mind blowing pleasure through the backdoor.
In fact the double ended rose toy I mentioned can also be used for the anal penetration. Before the penetration, you should use the tongue rose vibrator head or the rose wand vibrator around the rim of your anus. This is how slowly introduce anal play.
Relax with rose butt plug
Before having an anal penetration with a vibrating shaft or a thrusting dildo, you have better use the rose butt plug (with no motor) to relax the sphincter muscle. And the high-end player could start rolling or thrusting in their anus.
Keep it slow, use a big amount of lubes, keep exploring, the A-spot orgasms or the prostate orgasms will definitely drive you crazy.
Ultimate double penetration
If you really love the feeling of being filling up, for the vulva owner, you are the lucky one, because you are able to try the double penetration: vagina plus anus. A rose butt plug and a double ended rose toy can help you achieve it.
Keep upgrading
If you find a rose vibrator or one of its setting that can bring you orgasms, and just use the same rose toy in the same way, you can become over-reliant on it and make everything become routine. So it’s important to try the other setting of the same rose toy, change occasionally the way you use it, and upgrade your rose toys once in a while.
How to orgasm with the rose vibrator during sex with my partner?
Well, everything you do to yourself for masturbation you can also do the same during partner play time. And some may say you will need a couple’s vibe, but I believe that it’s all about the cooperation and the imagination. Every rose toy can be your couple’s sex toy.
Take full advantage of the rose clit toy
Darling be smart. Why don’t you let the rose clit stimulator do the oral sex job, both the rose clit sucker and the rose clit licker can do a brilliant job, and they will not get tired only if it’s fully charged. The rose toy can participate the foreplay also the intercourse.
The doggy could be the favorite position for you ladies, you can have the compact rose toy stimulating the clitoris while have your man thrusting into behind you. This is a couple’s way to get blended orgasm.
Mutually masturbating can make couple closer
During a making out, a double ended rose toy can be a perfect mutual masturbation tool. Press the vibrating tail up against the spot between the man’s anus and penis, while having the rose clit stimulator part teasing the partner’s clitoris. To heat up the desire can make the orgasm easier.
Massage yourself while your partner is busy down on you
When your babe is giving you oral down there, keep yourself busy too. Take the tongue rose toy or the suction rose toy to tease your nipples would be a good choice. You know, some of the people can actually come by nipple stimulation, even though you are not one of them, it can help you achieve the clitoral climax.
Keep going even he is getting off you
Physiologically, the men usually cum faster then the women, that’s why many of the women could not get the Big O by the P-in-V with the men. The rose toy with thrusting dildo and the vibrating shaft/egg promise the orgasm to the ladies, well, they can just go in and out tirelessly.
What about some BDSM
To hand over the rose toy to your partner and let him be the master. Have your partner tie your up, and let him use the rose vibrator on any part of you he wants. “The feeling is kind of complex” the BDSM beginner said “but mostly exciting and sexy.” And many of the users find it easier to reach orgasm while not having control.
Fill your anus up while he is thrusting in and out
You can choose to insert the the rose butt plug or the rose toy with vibrating egg/shaft into your anus while having penis penetration from your man. The double penetration can always help you to have some serious orgasm and when it happen, you can’t really tell what kind of orgasm you are having.
Be bold, be creative, there are so much more to explore
For the first try of anything, including trying the rose toy for an orgasm, it could be kind of clumsy. But you will find your own way and explore more about yourself.
Orgasms are amazing, but don’t make it the only standard. But not having orgasms doesn’t mean you had a bad experience, vice versa.
